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How To Cope With Angry Children

Do not make the child as an outlet for anger. Pressures of life increasingly difficult with many demands resulted in us emotions up and down. When emotions rise and lead us angry, it fair if we vent our anger to the child? Of course, it is unfair, is not it? Well now, how do we maintain our consciousness in order no make our children as an outlet when angry?

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1) focus on the consequences that would happen
If your child constantly disobeying your orders, then step back and do not force your will and inhale deeply. You can get out of the house for a moment to breathe fresh air and trying to focus and overcome the anger you are feeling.

The point should not be whining and crying your child tastes your anger. When you have felt calmer, give a little punishment to educate our children if he is not with us is still defiant.

Do not give severe punishment and torture its children. For example, do not let you yell at your child simply because it is small. Be wise parents in parenting. A good example of punishment is ordered to clear the house, bathroom or cleaning his room, but it must remain in our care to avoid things that are not desirable.


2) ask for assistance
Generally, the mothers will experience less sleep and less rest when they have a child aged less than 3 years. Do not make the condition less your fatigue as a reason to be angry. Immediately ask the help of parents, neighbors, family or friends who can be trusted to help care for your child for a minute so you can rest.

3) schedule a date with spouse

Sometimes we are too busy being parents so forget partner us. Duties and responsibilities as parents have been time to consuming and lead us to overlook the needs of our partners.


Some parents sometimes feel very angry with the child, so subconsciously imagine your days with a couple without children is disturbing.


It helps you and your partner take a moment to be alone without being bothered by children. It will make your back feel close to your partner. And it is also a sedative to overcome the anger that you feel.


Time to go home, you will be able to appreciate the existence of our children and do not feel that our children are bullies your life.



4) it must have been passed
Anger is a form of emotion, but the anger will increasingly become if you let it remain in the mind.


Maybe you think that your child is the one that bothers your life. Maybe you think that your child is selfish and does not understand you are tired after working all day. Then you look for other reasons for justifying your anger him.


Realize that it is plumb children to always want to be loved and for attention to their parents. Demand the attention of a wide variety of forms. From disturbing their parents or others.


So, remember. Lest we scold our children. All must pass. Our children will not always so. When he was great, I'm sure you'll miss the times when your child is still small.



5) improve the spirituality of self
If you are adherents of a religion, it helps if you take a moment to pray and meditate in accordance with the teachings of their respective religions to reach peace of life and eliminate anger.


This will help you in building a balanced perspective of looking at life. This is also useful as a protection for you from the anger that is excessive under any circumstances.


Benjamin franklin says: anger never happens without a reason, but the reason it is often not appropriate. Therefore keep trying to manage angry we effectively and precisely because children are too precious to be used as impingement anger.


From the above description, let us care about our children. Do not make our kids as an outlet for anger. Do not use a wide variety justification to scold our children. Our child is a gift of god the most beautiful in life.
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Way To Reduce High Emotions Of A Woman

You must already know that she was easy to hurt, then angry when she thinks we do not notice it. Angry women are one way to get the attention of whoever she wants, especially you as a partner. Angry it is a weapon for women.

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1. Anger in silence
With the typical rage of this kind, when the angry women tend to silent. You will be forced to find out for himself what the fault. It's up to how you search for it, he did not want to know. That sure is he wants you to apologize and fix your mistake. This is the hardest part. Because you will not know what you ere him.



2. Anger with words
This type of woman, when angry will shed all his heart which is why he's mad at you. You will more easily know what your mistakes to him. At least we do not have to guess what led him angry with us. But keep in mind that this type of woman can make you humiliated before the public. Sometimes when angry, his mouth could not be detained, harsh words will come out of his mouth and does not care how his surroundings.

Of two types of women over, the easiest to overcome his anger is the second type. This is because it is easy to find out what the cause of her anger. However, that does not mean the first type that can not be overcome. Basically, nothing is impossible. The following are ways to reduce the burden women with the assumption that you do not mistake a serious mistake for instance affair.

3. Do not follow angrily
Do not look for who is right and who is wrong. Because anyone is wrong, so do not need to follow angrily. Berating each other will not solve the problem. Behave calm and not create additional noise with your woman. A good man is a man who can keep calm when the female partner emotional and angry. Is not very good if an emotional response to the emotions as well. The relationship is the most important here. Do not damage the relationship that has been built well only for trivial reasons.

4. Immediately apologize
Should not be raised again who is right and who is wrong. Even if you feel that you're self-correct, apologize immediately. The first to say sorry is the people who have the magnanimity and noble character. When you apologize to your female faster, then at least his anger will quickly muffle. There will be little fresh air that enters the heart is still hot. This will reduce his emotions and anger.

5. Give flowers
After a few hours or it could be the next day, give flowers to her liking. With a note, that your woman likes flowers, if he did not like flowers, so do not give flowers.

6. Buy ice cream or chocolate
Almost all women love ice cream and chocolate. Most ice cream also contains chocolate. Brown for women as for men cigarette. This thing will make her feel better. Dopamine content in chat will make women become emotional level down and be more relaxed.

7. Leave physical and non-physical
If all of the above have not been able to make your woman's anger subsided, there is one more thing you need to do. Namely disappeared. Disappeared here means away from him and did not reach him through any path for a while. Be it physical like to meet in person or in non-physical such as texting, facebook or telephone. This will make the woman re-think about what he had done. If it is not you that is wrong, sooner or later, she will notice it and immediately look for you to apologize.

The five tips above assumptions made for your mistakes at the level of mild to moderate. While severe or fatal error categories like cheating, it feels that way will not be able to divert her attention. Indeed, it is not fair if women always win in any case. But in a relationship, there is no such thing as a win or lose. The relationship continues to run well is a shared victory. May be useful.

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How To Calm The Emotions in Men

Not just the men who are often confused when faced with emotional women who often uncontrolled, it turns out she also experienced the same thing. Women also often think, what should be done so emotional man back to normal.
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For women, while men you care grumpy, do not worry and confused by what you have to do to deal with it. This time i will teach you how to deal with men who are angry that lost his temper.

 
1. Give an explanation calmly
Women usually do not know what to do when the man she loved suddenly angry. And a lot of the women who actually wrong in taking action resulting exacerbate the situation.


When there are problems that make the man you love angry, then immediately provide an explanation with a calm and reasonable and do not be swayed by anger him. You must be quiet if you want your relationship to continue. If you get carried away as well, then you will bring yourself into issues more complicated.



2. The tone you can calm the emotions of men
When giving an explanation quietly, you also should be able to set the tone that is smooth so as not to add to the anger of men. Not a few women who managed to explain all the problems that occur with calm and reasonable, but because of court tone, intonation is high, then it is not managed properly. In the end, it does not dampen the emotions of men, even more, add to his anger. Show your sweet face. Show that you love him, that is by speaking gently.



3. Admit mistake
The woman is a creature with a very high prestige. Because prestige is too high, sometimes women are reluctant to admit mistakes, and always blame others. So the emotions of men you care may subside, then subtract the prestige you have. Do not be afraid and embarrassed to admit a mistake that you are doing. Ask to apologize to him. Apologize it will never drop your self-esteem before him. Indirectly, an apology is words you desire to keep your relationship and keep him well.



4. Cooed and bring her favorite
After the three things above you do, it is time to seduce her and bring or make what she likes. After making three previous actions, confirmed his emotions had begun to subside. This is a good time to give the things he liked and simultaneously seduce him in order not angry anymore.



5. Give hugs and kisses dear
This last is the most powerful way to quell angry for men you care. Combine in ways that have been described earlier by the latter, and you will see the results. I remind you, he was very shallow, a hug and a kiss of affection from you are enough to drown out her emotions.

Should be noted that the above methods will not work if your partner does not want to open his heart and forgive you. But, you better to try and fail than to fail before trying altogether.
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Your Cause Irritability Factor

Each person has a level of emotion different. There are people who have a low level of emotion, some have emotional level stable, and there are also people who have a high level of emotion. However, it all depends on each individual, whether he is able to control his emotions well or not.

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Angry is a healthy emotion just like crying and laughing. If a person is angry, maybe it is because of fear, upset, offended or feel hurt. However, if you find your nearest excessively angry, then you should first look at the real cause. Investigate first whether she was in effect or side effects of medication or are suffering from an illness.


A Doctor Of The Royal College Of General Practitioners, dr. Helen Stokes says that the cause of the anger someone could occur as a result of the use of drugs or side effects from medication and perhaps the person is suffering from a particular disease. The following factors often cause a person to be angry:


1. Stroke
When people have a stroke, then he will not be able to again perform the activities as before. Parts of the body affected by stroke will not be driven normally. People who do not have much patience will become irritable when faced with this disease. Tidka especially if there are people who serve full time.



2. Hyperthyroidism
Hyperthyroidism occurs because the thyroid gland produces too much thyroid hormone to the body. This condition is usually experienced by women. This will affect the thyroid hormone in the body's metabolic system. Thyroid hormone is very influential on feelings such as anxiety, nervousness and concentration. More thyroid hormone produced by the body, it will further increase the anxiety, nervousness and difficult to concentrate. When these overactive thyroid hormones, then it might be the cause of your loved ones become grumpy.



3. Cholesterol Drugs
One is a statin cholesterol drug content. If a statin is taken in high doses, the side effects are acceptable is easy to lose patience or extremely irritable. This is because the statin will make lower serotonin which causes an increase in depression and may result in death.



4. Deabetes Disease
Someone who is suffering from a disease deabetes, anger will increase. Imbalance of sugar levels in the body can cause an imbalance of serotonin in the brain. This resulted in a person with diabetes to be more aggressive, confusion, anger excessive and often even panic.



5. Depression
A person suffering from depression will become irritable, restless excessive, shame, guilt, and causes a feeling that she is unworthy or unappreciated.



6. Autism Disease
This developmental disorder can affect normal brain growth and influence bersosial skills and communicate with others. Many things that the sensory stimulant for which can ultimately increase the rage for people with autism disease. Not to mention the mockery and ridicule from peers.



7. Alzheimer's Disease
This disease is a form of dementia that affects demesia or brain function including emotional behavior and personality. It can cause flare-ups.



8. Sleeping Pills
Types of sleeping pills such as benzodiazepines work by slowing the various functions of the brain to calm down and relax, making it easier to sleep. But in fact the reduction of brain function is compensated by the increased levels of anger someone. Especially if the sleeping pills do not work properly, for example after taking sleeping pills turned out he was not able to sleep well.



9. Pre-Menstrual Syndrome
Pre-menstrual syndrome in women occur due to imbalance of hormones such as estrogen and progesterone. Women become more irritable for no apparent reason. Lady mood could change during the last two weeks of the menstrual cycle or dpada two weeks before menstruation.

See 9 above causes, you now understand that anger someone who is probably the one you love is not necessarily come from the ego. Factors of disease and drugs that can also affect the dikunsumsinya and angered unnatural.
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Angry Negative Impact For Your Body

Anger is an emotion that is physically led to an increase in heart rate, blood pressure, and levels of adrenaline and noradrenaline. Angry can take good resources of the body and create energy shortage. Have you ever felt dizziness and other health problems when emotions are not stable like when you're angry? Turns out it is is not a coincidence, the emotions that cause upset it can threaten your health. Here are some health risks when you get angry:
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1. Anger can cause stress and unhappiness
Angry people have a level greater tendency to get away from the stress and the feeling of happiness compared to others. Stress from angry can cause high blood pressure, mental stress and emotions are getting out of control.



2. Angry cause high blood pressure
When angry, immediately the blood pressure increases and breathing rhythm becomes faster. In some cases, high blood pressure can cause a sudden headache.



3. Angry predispose to inflammation and muscle pain
In medical science, the release of a hormone called cortisol during your anger is known to cause the muscles there are more pliable and receive energy attack in a few seconds. This led to the repeated release of the hormone cortisol have negative effects such as making the body becomes susceptible to muscle pain in the long run.



4. Get tired
Expression of anger is certainly very draining. In the process, stress hormones will continue to rise and will eventually exhaust the energy in our body.



5. Hard to sleep
Negative thoughts that continuously controls the brain when he is mad of course will make it hard to get quality sleep. The difficulty of getting quality sleep will lead us to be easier to get a headache.



6. Anger can weaken the immune
We probably heard the saying "a healthy mind is a healthy heart". True, one's mental condition affects the level of immunity. More often angry, then we are disturbed mental state and also more vulnerable immune system.



7. Anger can cause social isolation
In addition to medical side effects, one of the side effects of anger is social isolation from others. All the people will never like to be next to people who are often angry and temperamental. If you've got the title as the person often angry, then gradually people will stay away from you.



8. Heartbeat became faster
People who are often angry will have a faster heartbeat. Although they are not in a state of anxiety, but their bodies still showed signs of fear and stress, such as increased cortisol and sweating.



9. Increases stress hormones
When a person is angry, then one of the nerves that hypothalamic pituitary becomes hyperactive. Part of the hormone has then released a stress hormone called cortisol. The more cortisol is released, then the blood pressure will increase.



10. Stroke
Brain stroke occurs when one or more blood vessels in the brain rupture. This can occur when anger makes the blood pressure rose to very high. Stroke can result in death or brain paralyzes the body.



11. Headache
When you are angry, the blood vessels in the brain will be throbbing excessive and uncontrolled. This can trigger pain in the head. If this happens, try to be calm and patient.



12. Breathing problems
Turns angry can also cause respiratory problems such as asthma. Someone will find it difficult to breathe when he's angry. Anger can also trigger asthma attacks and make one's breathing became panting.


13. Often ill
Do you know when you're angry, then the immune system will decrease? If your immune system dramatically decreased, then the disease will be easier to attack our bodies.



14. Anxiety attack
Anger can create feelings of anxiety that are not clear about various things and we will become more sensitive to everything that exists.



15. Depression
As a result of prolonged stress experienced after the upset, it may cause other effects: depression.



16. Indigestion
Various digestive ailments like acid reflux, heartburn or constipation will appear when someone often angry. This was due to increased stomach acid levels when we are angry.

Likened to a fire, anger can burn a person and make that person worse and his condition became worse. However, everyone can control his temper passion with always learn to improve their ability to control its emotions. It would be nice if we could all be able to master ourselves and were able to avoid anger. Anger it will only harm ourselves by inviting various diseases to perch and nest in our bodies. Therefore we must always learn to control our anger.
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Tips to Control Your Emotions and Anger

Anger is a very human trait because it is one of the basic human nature. However angry a lot of negative impacts either for themselves or for others. To control and restrain the emotions and anger needed a perseverance. The following tips to control your emotions and anger:
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1. Forgive
Forgive the mistakes of others is a very powerful and fastest proven to relieve upset us. With sincere all the mistakes that have others do to us, then our hearts and we will be calmer unpleasant. Tranquility is what makes us angry ceased. However, to forgive someone with all the mistakes he's ever done is very difficult to do. Therefore required a learning and continuous training for into people are forgiving. One more thing, people are forgiving it will be the people who loved and liked by others.




2. Smile
When you are angry, try to grab a mirror. See how your face when angry. If as mad you will be more beautiful or be more handsome? Certainly not not not? Quite the opposite. Your face will be seen to be older and terrible.
The next try to reflection if you never make a mistake during your lifetime? Whether we are forgiven by others? Try to understand that you also make mistakes to others. Try to smile in front of the mirror and feel your anger disappear little by little.



3. Positive thinking
Often our anger arises because we are prejudiced against others. Try to be calm and in no hurry to act. Think first well everything that you get. Check out the truth about the issues that exist. Berpikira keeps calm and positive and rests assured that all will be fine.



4. Kneel
For the religion of Islam, bowing is one way that can be done to contain and defuse anger. Prostrate like a prayer can remind us that we are the low and nothing before god.
In addition to the prostrate, the blood flow to the brain will be more smoothly. Smooth blood flow to the brain will update information received by the body. It will quickly relieve our anger.



5. Silent
Sometimes people who are angry to say anything that could damage the good relationship with somebody, ruin a romantic atmosphere and can start a fire in dispute and can add to the enemy. When we are angry, we should be silent because silence does not mean we are inferior to others. Even with our silent when angry with someone making the dignity of us become better in the eyes of others.



6. Change position
Change position when angry can eliminate much emotion. For example, when you are angry while standing, then shut up and flee to sit or lie down and do not remain to stand.



7. Shower or wash your face
Angry was likened as a fire that was burning ourselves. Such as natural law, if there is a fire then put out with water. Then when you get angry, then immediately take water to wash our faces or immediately take water for a shower. This will reduce our angry.



8. Closer to the people we love
When we are angry, try to approach our loved ones suppose a girlfriend, wife or child. Hug a loved one with sincere and feel your anger will slowly disappear by your affection.



9. Remember the kindness
There is a saying of the anger will destroy much good. Therefore, try to remember the kindness of the people we angry. Do not dwell only on the error which he's already done it. Remember the one that may have the kindness she had done to you was bigger than his guilt.

The conclusion is angry it will not solve a problem that we are facing. Besides angry nor will positively impact our own bodies even anger can provoke a variety of diseases to enter our bodies. Therefore we must be able to hold our anger for the sake of ourselves and others. This article hopefully we can be the one who can control our anger and can become a more positive person.
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How To Restrain Excessive Emotions, Eliminate Anger Quickly and Intelligently

Emotion is a natural trait possessed by all human beings. All human beings have emotions. However, if the nature of this emotion too much, it will be bad for ourselves. Therefore, we should be able to control our emotions very well. But not everyone can do it. This time lifemotivation.net will try to explain about how we are always able to control emotions in ourselves.


Life is full of twists and turns. They are not wise in responding to life will be carried away by the current of the winding. But a wise man will continue to weigh in the liver before doing something so that the life cycle of the straight and sincere in dealing with life. In life, no life is constantly good, sometimes life is salty, sour and sometimes bitter. Therefore we must always learn from every incident that happened to us so that we can be a noble person.

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Anger was terrible
Angry is human. It is the truth. But we should not be like an animal using only muscle and fangs when angry. As a man by reason and mind by god, we must use it well so that we become human. Lah familiarize yourself through learning to face a difficult situation that we are no longer surprised if there are people who always blame us.

How to cope with and control the excessive emotions
Once again, to control excessive emotions need to be learning and all it requires time-consuming process. However, sooner or later the process, all depends on yourself. Here's how to overcome and control the emotions that bullet you try:

1. Take it as it comes
Try to accept all the events that happen to you. Said inwardly with full confidence that "i deserve it". Then ask for help to god so that you can face all these events and given the best way to deal with it.

2. Thank god
If we thank the lord for what he has given, be it a small thing or things that are great, then we will get the peace of mind in the face of life with all its problems...

3. Patient and forgiving
We all need to realize that no human being in this world is perfect. No men in this world that is clean and free from errors. If there are people who do wrong to us, then forgive and give him a way to improve themselves. Patience to deal with these people. And if you can, help them with prayer works best for them..

4. Ignore the anger and divert attention to other things
When the liver is inflamed by anger caused by the heat of emotion, then it would be nice if you immediately think of other things, especially things that are beautiful and we love and we care about. Think a girlfriend, wife or our children who are pretty and cute. I am sure your emotions will soon disappear.

5. Do not fight, be cool and soothing water
Resistance and violence initiated from within our own minds. If our hearts are against, then our organs also will fight automatically. All members of the body will react automatically impulsive.
Open mind and be a good listener. Occasional nod as a sign that you are watching everything that was going on.

6. Relax
If you've really grown, then your heart and your mind will be more flexible in the face of everything that happened. Just think of all that was happening, as the flower of life that sometimes smells fragrant and sometimes smells. Take valuable lessons from each experience both good and bad. Because that is what will make us be wise in dealing with problems. If you have been accustomed to difficult situations, the most difficult situation you face, you will keep smiling. A sincere smile and not look mocking will relieve hot atmosphere by emotion.

7. Continue your work
Work that requires a high concentration. When we busied ourselves into work, then anger it will soon pass.

8. For fresh air or walk outdoors
Leave the situation and the people who invite negative emotions are necessary to prevent upset us. Go out of the house or a room simply breathe in the fresh air. Inhale deeply and slowly remove it. Repeat until feel the cool air into the lungs. This will make us a much clearer mind so that it can megambil smart action to overcome our emotions.

9. Sport
One way to overcome excessive emotions is through exercise. With exercise, we will shift our focus to something positive, even with the exercise we can build a good relationship with others.

10. Doing our hobby
Everyone has a different hobby. When someone working on his hobby, he will drown in his own world and forget what was happening. Therefore, if you're angry, so do what you become your hobby.

11. Forget only our emotions
If you want to know yourself, then your emotions are luapkan lah. But you need to know if you are venting your emotions, there will be negative things to yourself. Please feel what would happen if you often angry.

12. After all the anger you pass, do not forget to re-establish good relations
Situations and unstable conditions encourage the creation of a long distance that separates people who are fighting. If the atmosphere was a bit quiet and relaxing, then you need to reconnect with the people who are hostile to you. Good communication is a key to bring back one another. Start with kindness as simple as a smile and suave to realize a real good rapport.

13. Keep learning from experience
Life is a place to learn from the experience. Small things, situas hot or cold, we have experienced during this teaches us to get to know yourself and to know the result of all the action we did.

Your experience is the most valuable teacher in life in the future. Keep learning, because this life is a place of learning for ourselves so that we can achieve a perfect human words.
I hope this article is helpful for all of us.