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Sincere Love Learning to Receive Pair It Is

Love and beloved is a gift that is so wonderful. Love and beloved by people who want to make the world feel belong to both. However, the love story is not always beautiful. For the person who loves others with its shortcomings would love feels heavier. 

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Perceived inner debate between loving him with sincere or look for others it feels so quaint. In this case, a sincere love was needed. However, as is the sincerity of love? Do you love your partner are sincere?

Loved imperfections perfectly

A sincere love is a love that is able to still be there when the differences and imperfections coloring relationship. No man is born with perfect. Therefore, when we love others, do not be surprised when we find things we do not want there to the person. What you should do is to love her imperfections perfectly.

Additionally, if you see a lot of difference, make a difference as a sweetener in your relationship. Love him with all that there is to him. Remember that you are not perfect. You certainly are not perfect in his eyes but see only he could accept you gracefully. If you cannot accept the shortcomings of your mate, it might occur to you to look for other people better.

Remember that the new people you will encounter there would not be perfect. If continuously doing so, you will not ever find the desired person. Therefore, you must learn to accept imperfection couples. This is one example of a very sincere love. With sincere love, then the relationship will go as desired.

Accept him fully

Differences and imperfections couple is nothing compared to the love story of a human child with people who do not have a physical deficiency. It will be even tougher because maybe your family will not approve of your relationship. Again, a sincere love is needed in this connection. You may not like others who have a spouse who born perfect.

To address this, look into the depths of his heart, and then you will easily receive and loved him sincerely. People who are born with perfect physical were not necessarily able to love you like your current partner. The person you think is perfect not necessarily is happy you like what your partner today. Therefore, receive him as is. If your relationship is based on the sincerity of love, then everything else will be easier and beautiful.

Learn to respect others. Learn to respect others. Learn to love others with sincerity regardless of the advantages he has. Learn and continue to try to get a sincere love.

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A secret love Surviving with love

Love in secret, beautiful yet painful. Secret love is draining thoughts and feelings. There are many difficulties experienced when we love someone in secret. Wonderful, it is when we are able to maintain a sense that there is no fear of rejection and heartache. There is love, there is also sorrow will be felt.

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Behind the beauty of it, the pain it feels when we faced the fact that we will not be able to get an answer to our feelings. This is because the people we love are not even know how we feel about it. Early love may all sound quite so beautiful and carefree. However, over time, all will turn out to be more complicated and drain the hearts and minds. If it were so, what should be done? Are you going to survive love in secrecy? Alternatively, boldly going to express feelings that had been buried?

Woman with Her love secrets

Most women prefer to remain to admire and love her in secret. If you are one of them and you think that love in secret will not hurt, you are wrong. Once you love someone for years, and probably the one you love, it has to others, that are when you will feel hurt. Your chance to be loved back has been lost. Hope that during this time there will be lost in an instant. 

Will you still love him even though he already owned by someone else? If so, have you thought to be up when you love her? Is not everyone entitled to be happy? Are not you also entitled to pursue your own happiness? Well, even though you are a woman, do not be afraid to say love with him. Nothing wrong with stating your feelings prior notice. If not so, how long he or she will never know that you love him that you have admired since the first.

Operate Who Loved By secret

If the woman who loves him secretly still said to were fair, what about men? Men have a lot more opportunity and the chance to express your love to someone who wants. Therefore, men have a secret love looks a little unusual. If you people like this, now is the time you make a change. Normally, the person who first said that love is the man.

Therefore, what you have to do is muster the courage and express love in him. To express love, you have to wait for the right time, but do not delay too long before it is too late, and she had been owned by someone else. You will never know what will happen next until you reveal your feelings to him. So, dare to speak and be prepared with all possible answers that would be obtained.

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Blind Love: Love is Blinding Hearts and Logic

Love is blind; so many people often say it. When you are in love, in the deepest corner of your heart, you might not be able to dismiss this reality, that love is blind. A love capable of blinding your heart and in your previous logic works well, is able to select and sort out which ones may be, should not be, and indeed should do. However, when love comes, all things are too beautiful to be rejected, too happy to be rejected. As a result, heart and logic are not in line anymore. This is called blind love.

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Love is blind can come, as you are to love your partner. This love is slowly growing and powerful, will make the heart go blind. The liver can no longer distinguish the love and where lust. This is called love is blind. Over time, your heart will be filled with lust, not love. If it were so, then all sorts of ways could have been done in order to channel the passions and desires.

When hearts were blind and love has been fettered by lust, then we will be more difficult to get out of the doldrums. Love that there have already been spotted. Then, when passions can no longer be channeled, love will taste bland. Although the initial concept of love that you have a sincere love, a love that makes people respect each other, not mutually interested. Before you are caught up further, there must be a strong desire from within to return to the true nature of love. However, to return to the nature of love, not only you have to try, but also it must be done together with your partner.

When the heart has started blind, then the logic will be easily blinded by love. Thus, the term love is blind is true. People who have been blinded by love will easily forget everything. For him, the important thing is to be with loved ones, no matter the decision he took is correct or not, it does not matter whether the decision would hurt others or not.

One example is the blind love it when a woman makes the decision to be with a man who has been married. He knew that he was an affair. However, because of the heart and its logic has been blinded by love, he no longer cared. He no longer thought of the wife of the man, nor is it concerned with his dignity as a woman. What is worse is when he is willing to leave his family for the sake of the man. This is called a blind love. The logic is no longer able to think clearly and had no power to refuse his desire to be with her lover.

I hope that the love we have does not love that is blind. I hope that the love we have is a love that is pure and sincere without being overridden by lust. Because passion is, what will destroy our love is originally pure and sincere.

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Build Love to Happiness

Why should fall in love if that makes you hurt?
Not because of "love" that can make cuts, because love is from the heart. In addition, a true heart will not be able to hurt the other.

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Which makes the wound was the fall itself why should "fall"? Why not put "love" without using the word "fall" let me not get hurt.

"I'm in love with you" compare with "I love you”.

Look, the word is simpler and direct hit, without falling (injured) first, then love will arise.

I do not understand well, with people now, why should "fall in love”, but it fell ill and did not reassure. There is a saying that state "love that comes because it used.” Did not use the word fell first, then love, but used to feel happy, which then becomes love.

After I browse again, the word "Falling" means to fall and "in love" means to love. However, what about the real meaning? Could be "falling in love" because it means falling in love, falling in love, or because the loved one should be ready to fall and get hurt.

Clearly, the sense of falling itself already looks painful, especially if you fall in love, falls in love or falling in love. That is, the love felt it needed something that was sacrificed, perhaps pain, or injuries due to the fall, or the people who fall in love to be sacrificed to serve as victimizing.

Although we must be aware that it takes sacrifice love, but love is not something to be sacrificed. Sacrificing love each other sincerely need to go to a happiness, not a unilateral sacrifice, which would torment and injure those who sacrifice.

Build love it as cultivate love to develop that will be Flowers of love. While falling in love, is the first one to feel attracted to the opposite sex, and put their heart and all hope that he also felt the same way.

Falling in love is easy, look at the opposite sex in accordance with the criteria of our delight; it was enough to qualify in love. Because it was so easy, to fall in love too vulnerable injured.

when using the word "fallin love", not necessarily love will be successful because the word "fall" in love is the beginning of the process before starting a relationship. Therefore, it remains unclear whether it is accepted or only an unrequited love.

However, sometimes, a man who falls in love only harbored feelings in my heart, without having to disclose to the owner of his heart. The term "Loved the Silence”.

Can such?

It is allowed.

Usually when a girl who fell in love with a man, usually buried deep, although some are a little smarter by playing the codes of love that men would understand her feelings.

The difficult part was to build love. It took a lifetime to be hand in hand together, not without conflict, but the face of the conflict together.

Build love and love are the same at first glance, equally love partner. The difference falling in love in a state like that blinds, we are blind and those we love own deaf to the shortage of which. The most important thing we love her and that was enough.
However, love builds required in all circumstances. Not just like, in a state of annoyance, though, love is the no longer tangible hug, but a form of good faith understand the conflict and work together to find a solution to looking happy together.

Looking for a life partner is starting to fall in love. Afterward, the largest portion is built, love.

So, fall in love and build love to be happy.

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The Meaning and Beauty of Love

Love, love, and love. Most people believe that love can bring a message of peace, beauty, and happiness. Love to  as the only reason why someone wants to rise, the only way to let the wheel life goes as it should, and the only thing that makes a person understand and interpret the life and feel his life is very meaningful. However, some say that love only brings destruction, eat all felt confidence in the hearts of the innocent, giving hope to empty the conscience dreamer, and readily give misery though to weep blood, especially for those who have felt the bitterness of love.

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For the poet and Bard, love is beautiful. Love is beautiful. For players of hearts that love is a game when it was bored he will leave love. For those who never have, that love is a dream, dreaming that he always wanted. For the haters, love it is merely difficult responsibility. For the connoisseur, maybe love is carnal pleasures. Each person must have their own opinions about love, every person has a different measure and about love even has its own characteristics, and the types are different.

Love is a gift, however wonderful it immeasurably and beyond our power. Love is uniquely presented, suddenly and without warning. Sometimes unexpected events pass beautiful, fun and uplifting and sometimes embarrassing events, even too embarrassing to think about.

Love is a complicated thing, very beautiful; bring happiness but simultaneously with the misery. Make those shows his identity. In front of love, wealth will not be real wealth, not as the beginning of power. Before love, malice and inhumanity will not be helpless; will not be able to force any of his wills. In addition, in front of love, beauty and good looks are just mere masks, could not make it a supporting factor. Love, beauty, and implied in all the depictions of life.

Love is a complicated feeling, every word is worth a thousand flavors are difficult to express. Love is difficult to predict. With love, one can feel the happiness.

Love is an active operation by man for others, such as self-sacrifice, empathy, concern, compassion, help, follow, obedient, and willing to do whatever it wants that person.

Love like Ink Life scraping impression on a blank sheet of paper. Love is like dew in the morning, which comes with a coolness in anyone. Love is a motivator who can provide motivation for someone to get up or until someone can do crazy things when he falls in love.

Love cannot be touched and touched the wind like coolness, but love can be felt like the warmth of the sun and the coolness of the air in the morning. However, sometimes where a love can bring misery. Love can also be a power shredder with incredible strength. Getting people to give up slumped against his fate, love comes to bring pleasure but also bring long-suffering endless. Love is beautiful but tragic.


 Speaking of tragically love, did you people love how the most tragic? Maybe do you think yourself as follows? 

 1. Tragic love it is love separated by difference. Should be separated because the difference of living adequate for the second employee which should be separated because of different beliefs and should willingly be parted because of deep differences on the status of each or may have to be separated because of the distance, and the ocean. 

 2. Love that misguides with anger and lust. Love that should end up with an unhappy end. Love has broken to pieces due to bickering and completed by infidelity and jealousy when incite, murder ever took place. Love that gives many cases and misery.

3. The love force. Love that is felt because forced, forced to love someone even he abhorred. Love imposed by debt. The courtship misguides by parents. Love that should never have happened. 

 Yes, you people are right. The above events indeed deserve to be included in the category of tragic love, however, the two lovebirds in the above three States can still love each other or hate each other. Then how to love the most heartbreaking, lamentable, and tragic is that? Tragic love is loving no matter. A philosopher who ponders love day and night writing as if this ' Love me or just hate me, but spare me with your indifference ' Love me or hate me, just do not do not care about me.

Many people or perhaps almost everyone said that opponents said love is hate, right? However, I think the antonyms of the word love itself are not hated, ask why? First, we used to be mean what love is. When we love, obviously we will observe, help, love, love, help to someone, it meant to love it cares. Care. However, when we hate someone what we stop care him? Obviously, the answer is no, though we haters we still have felt, but we still give him a taste. The Feeling of Hate. When we hate someone what we do not care him at the same time? Clearly, we are concerned at the time that, although matter in the negative mean. So it is clear what the opponent says from love? Yes. The passiveness. 

 The beauty of love is indeed no matchless. Love can accept two difference into one purpose of not only making a difference is a similarity because could give rise to a difference precisely in love and love to be able to accept it. With love, someone loves the spouse because it is perfect but that person could accept a lack of spouses thoroughly and saw perfection in love. What about you guys? Have you people find what it is that his name is love?

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Love Is No Need To Have Each

Love does not have to have, a sentence that very often we hear from the mouths of people who did not get his love. This phrase is usually used merely as an entertainer's heart when love just claps hands or rejected by someone beloved.

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People who say this sentence is the person who is being felt the bitterness of love. Whether people like this deserve to be pitied? No. Whether it is appropriate if the person we refer to as the poor man? Not really. Why? Because with the experience of love is rejected by the people he loves, he will have a valuable experience, which he will become more mature, become more patient and more thoughtful in life.

Let's look deeper still. Whether the affection and love that should have? Whether to love the money we love it, we have to be his girlfriend? Whether when we love someone, that person must belong to us completely? Affection and love, you have not fully gotten a score of 100% if you still expect reciprocity or remuneration in the form of love and sadness. But it is very human.

Love and affection that ideal is love and affection without expectation of reward or a reply. But we should know that in this world nothing is ideal and perfect as we want.

Love is giving and self-sacrifice without expecting any reply from loved ones. The actual true love, we can give only if the lovers already really belong to us completely. And if our loved ones are not yet completely ours, surely the love we always want strings attached or reply. Whether it wants to love and be loved by the people we love or other rewards.

That love requires sacrifice. Not only the sacrifice of time, energy and material, even victims feeling. Especially if our love is not reciprocated, then we will be the even greater sacrifice.

A question for those of you who say that love does not have to have each other. Could you smile happily when the one you love to introduce his girlfriend or husband/wife? Could you feel happy to see happy together with others whom he loves?

I think you would be upset, angry, disappointed and felt hurt when seeing those you love with others and live happily. It was very normal. We are just ordinary people who have emotions, ambition and motivation. Whatever we do, we often expect the reward. If there is no hope of getting strings attached, for what you do that? Just because of love? Simply because of love? Sure? Is it true that you do not expect him to come back someday? Is it true that you do not expect a sweet smile? Just note that smile that is often a vulnerary at heart, although only just blink of an eye.

However, I remain convinced that a sincere love was still there. As its size is, if you still love him, continued to do well against him, when he expects to remain help, it means you can be said to have had a sincere love and sincerity.

Regardless of how great a sacrifice you have to bear and does not care as deeply as any pain in the hearts of you. If you still can smile sweetly sincere when seeing someone you love is happy with someone else, I'm sure that's what love is sincere and selfless.

Now you have to realize that sometimes love does not have to have each other. However, you also have to realize that you've hurt yourself when you maintain unrequited love.

If you are experiencing unrequited love. Rest assured that he is not the best for us. Now you should immediately clean itself to become a new self by learning to love others.

Do not let yourself continually believe that "I am also happy to see him happy." rest assured that there are other people who can make you happy.

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Love and Romantic Future Orientation

Build the relationship, always be the focus of attention and time because it is a potential that it can bring individuals to happiness, though it can also be a painful thing.

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The relationship became even more complex when they start involving love and trust in a partner. Romantic relationships can be either ' intimate relationships ', a term widely and erratically, which can include a variety of different associations between friends, couples, families and relatives of the family (Gillies, 2003).

This intimate relationships and interactions affect the adaptation in a changing needs and pressures involved at each stage of development in one's life.  According to Erikson (in Papalia, 2007), developing an intimate relationship is an important developmental task for young adults. The need to create a strong, stable relationship, close, and the matter became a very powerful motivator for the behavior of individuals.  

In fostering an intimate relationship, the individual need to have an understanding of self, ability to express emotions, ability to commit, and decision making in sexuality. These things are very important for young adults in deciding whether they will marry or form homosexual relationships. Forms of expression in intimate relationships may include friendship, love, and sexuality.  Love is an expression of human emotion is most excellent and most desired.

According to Sternberg (1987), love consists of three main components, intimacy, passion, and commitment that all three are related to each other. Intimacy refers to the feeling of closeness and tied with couples; passion is the encouragement of physical attraction, romance, and sexual abuse; and the commitment occurs when individuals begin to decide (short-term aspects) and sustain (an aspect of the long term) of the love he had. Loving someone owned depends on the degree or the proportion of these three components (Sternberg, 1988).  

The difference in the levels of this love can be explained through a combination of these three components, for example the love romantic intimacy and passion component contains a lot more than a component of the commitment. In addition, a relationship that is based only on one component only more difficult to endure than based on two or three components at once.

The difference in levels of love can also be due to the difference in age and gender. Women are usually more intimate to the friend of the couple, compared to where they are more difficult to express emotion and intimacy in communication with their partner. But instead of the man who more easily express the emotional intimacy with a partner than with the companions (Sternberg, 1987). Women and men also have sexual needs and desires are different, where men have a greater proportion to their sexual needs (in Papalia, 2007).

In addition, men tend to be more premature in terms of sexual desire, where she has appeared in the initial phase of young adults; whereas women tend to give priority to the immediacy of emotion and communication.  With regard to love, Kienlen (2007) mentions three phases in romance, that romantic feeling (flavor of love), physical attraction, and attachment to emotions.

First of all, the feeling of love appears on the individual because of the proximity to the opposite sex. Furthermore, individual minds are met by loved ones and start making it an ideal partner. Physical attraction phase is often said to be false "lovesick" or smitten. Then the relationship continued to attachment to emotions, which involves commitment, friendship, or even a child. In this last stage, the individual positive or negative character knowing of the pair, and decide whether you want to build a life together.

The third stage is not separate but rather a fusion of all three in a long-term romantic relationship, one of which is the bond of marriage with a commitment to share (Stutzer & Frey, 2006).  Romantic relationships based on love can arise from a wide variety of ways, for example, two individuals mutually attracted to each other and decided to build a romantic relationship. In addition, a romantic relationship may also arise from a friendship, then develops into a relationship romance. (Guerrero & Mongeau, 2008). However, it is not easy for individuals to be able to maintain a romantic relationship that is owned in a long period of time. Based on Sternberg (1987), to maintain a relationship can be made through triangular theory.  

First, keep your emotions so well developed intimacy.  

Second, analyze fulfillment and sexual passion in a relationship. The components of the poison can be different between individuals with her partner and sometimes it is hard to be controlled, so that couples need to understand their respective needs and try to meet those needs.  

Third, understanding the importance of relationships and enjoying a relationship with happiness. In doing this, the third point is needed for components of intimacy and passion, and especially expressions of commitment of a long-term romantic relationship.

With regard to maintaining long-term romantic relationships, it is important for individuals to be able to express emotions, commitment, and the decision in sexuality. This refers to the ability of the individual in doing assignments, planning, and decision-making about a romantic relationship that is being carried, as it is important for the sexual behavior of young adults (McCabe & Barnett, 2000).  The setting, planning, and decision making in life a person closely related to the orientation of the future (Sanger et al., in Seniger, 1992).

Cross-cultural research on the orientation of the future often compares domain orientation of the future in teenagers and young adults, teens are more focused on their feelings and thoughts about the future of education and career achievement, while intimacy is more focused on young adults (McCabe & Barnett, 2000). In line with that, Salmela-Aro, Aunola, and Nurmi (Nurmi, 2005) conducted a study of longitudinal against college students in the period of 10 years.

They found that after the second and third years of lectures, education was deemed less important; In contrast, career, family, and children become more specialized purposes. Thus, the themes related to the future of the future, especially in romantic relationships, it becomes more important things for young adults.  Future orientation of the term was first introduced by Lewin (Öner, 2000a; Öner, 2000b; Nurmi, 2005; Seniger, 2009), which refers to all the interests of someone in the future. Future orientation is defined as thinking and planning about the future (inside the Malmberg & Norrgard Dorham, 2005); and as the capacity to manage and anticipate future events (Gjesme, in Öner, 2000a; Kalkan, 2008).

Further, the Gjesme (in Kalkan, 2008) distinguishes between the orientation of the future in the context of the General, with the orientation of the future in more specific contexts.  The orientation of the future in a more general context associated with estimates and anticipation of individuals in General, i.e., for example, that he would be working in the future; While the orientation of the future in a more specific context associated with the estimates and anticipation of individuals at certain things, for example, individuals who are interested in a particular job only.  In line with the thinking Gjesme, Öner (2000a) suggests that future orientations in romantic relationships differ from the orientation of the future in General. The orientation of the future on a romantic relationship is the tendency to seek temporary or permanent relations with the opposite sex.  

Referring to Öner (2000b), individuals with a level of high future orientation is expected to seek a relatively permanent relationship; instead of the individual to the level of orientation of the future more low can enjoy temporary relationships.  

In his research, Öner found several factors that influence the orientation of the future on romantic relationships, i.e., attention to the commitment to the future, investing in the future, involvement in the future (Öner, 2000a), the search for a permanent relationship, as well as a focus on relationships in the future (Öner, 2000b). In addition, gender, satisfaction in the relationship, as well as some individual characteristics, such as jealousy, and self-monitoring, also seems to affect the orientation of the future (Öner, 2000b), although only on a certain boundary (Kalkan, 2008).

Based on the research of Öner (2000a), individuals with a preference for long-term commitment will find a relatively permanent relationship (future-oriented), and have an attitude that is more cautious in initiating and fostering a romantic relationship. This cautious attitude can affect an individual's response to our satisfaction relationship. However, the individual will also need to pay attention to the components of intimacy and passion, as well as the length of a romantic relationship that he lives. According to Berscheid (Sternberg, 1986), at the beginning of a romantic relationship, uncertainty in the relationship to make individuals not able to predict behavior and emotional condition of the spouse.  This inability can make individuals feel uncomfortable with the relationship. Furthermore, when in a romantic relationship of individuals don't get passionate needs properly, it can also be not satisfied; that can lead to the termination of a relationship (Sternberg, 1986).

This means that satisfaction in the relationship can also involve high or low degree of each component of love.   In addition to the engagement component of love, relationship satisfaction in individuals also can be caused by weather or not there is a romantic touch experience. According to Öner (2000b), the discontent relationship with individuals with beorientasi the future can also be caused by the lack of a romantic relationship to the individual experience. Individuals who are currently not in a relationship, certainly not feeling romantic expression of intimacy, passion, and commitment as perceived by the individual who is the romantic relationship.

The lack of experience of the individual against the expression of the components of this love can affect the orientation of the future on the romantic relationships of the individual, particularly on the subject of young adults in connection with the task of development.  Furthermore, young adults are more likely to determine continuation of the dating relationship romance that they undertake. They have a better position in the discuss loss and benefit in the relationship, romance (Manning et al., 2007). It is with regard to the orientation of the future of a romantic relationship.  

In his book, Reeder (2008) concluded that knowledge of the goals and objectives in a romantic relationship can help individuals to understand human interaction better. In line with the developing understanding of the potential mate, someone will live in the future, understanding concerning goals and objectives will help in forecasting and regulating the interaction of individuals with their partner (Dennet, Reeder at 2008). The consequences are obtained when an understanding of the prospective spouse is not developed will have an impact on the relationships that clunky, hurt, or aggressive feud (Abbey, Reeder at 2008).

At the conclusion, love is one of the aspects that are important in determining the sustainability of romantic relationships carried by individuals. Research on aspects of love in romantic relationships can help the individual understanding of the orientation of its future on a romantic relationship.

Based on the foregoing, it is an important thing for individuals, especially young adults, to know the level of love that he has to be able to determine whether he will be in a relationship long term or short term with his partner. 
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Theory and Definition Of Love

Love is a positive emotion is most intense and most desired by everyone. Kelley (Sternberg, 1987) defines love as:

“Positive feeling and behaviors, and commitment to the stability of the force that affect an ongoing relationship.”

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According to the above definition, love is a feeling and positive behavior, as well as a commitment to maintain the stability of someone possessed feelings and the vagaries of the Act that could affect the relationship that is being lived.  To understand and decipher love deeply, Sternberg (1987) formulates a model with regard to love. This theory is known as Triangular Theory of Love or love that triangulation theory tells us that love can be understood through three components namely intimacy, passion, and commitment.

Components Of Intimacy According to Sternberg (1987), intimacy refers to those feelings in a relationship that promote closeness, connectedness, and bondedness. Intimacy refers to feelings in a relationship that can increase the closeness, attachment, and the nexus between the people in it. The components also include a feeling of intimacy that may give rise to the warmth in the relationship remains.  Sternberg & Grajek (Sternberg, 1987) identifies ten components of intimacy in love: 1) Have a desire to improve the welfare of the couple. 2) Feel happy and enjoy pleasant moments with a loved one. 3) Respect and cherish the couple well. 4) Can expect and rely on the couple when needed. 5) Mutually understand and grasp the excess or deficiency of one another. 6) Self, time, Share ownership, and secrets shared with a loved one. 7) Felt got support and encouragement from your partner. 8) Empathize and offer emotional support on a loved one whenever needed. 9) Can communicate in an intimate, immersive, and open about the deepest feelings with loved ones. 10) Assess and consider the importance of a loved one.

In addition, based on research on a number of behaviors that pertained in romantic love, Sternberg and Barnes (Sternberg, 1987) find the three subdimensi that can better explain the components of intimacy.  The third subdimensi this refers to the difference in the level of intimacy. Subdimensi the first refers to all behavior that generally appears in an intimate relationship, while the second refers to the subdimensi specific aspects that are good for the individual. Further, on the third subdimensi refers to things that are deeper, namely the aspects on the intimacy that can make a special or unique relationship, in which a couple are already very close and always feel the togetherness though separated.

Of the three subdimensi above, Sternberg and Barnes (Sternberg, 1987) distinguishes three levels of intimacy: • Aspects that are good for anyone in a relationship; • Aspects that are especially good for individuals (me); • Aspects that can make couples special or unique.
The Components Of The Passion Passion is a condition that intensively makes us always want to United with a loved one (Hatfield Walster &, Sternberg in 1987). According to Sternberg (1987), passion is largely the expression of desires and needs-such as for self-esteem, nurturance, affiliation, dominance, submission, and sexual fulfillment. Passion is the expression of a variety of wants and needs, such as self-esteem, maturity, needs in relation to power, desire and obey the will of the sovereign, as well as sexual fulfillment. Simply put, this component refers to the impulse that leads to romance, physical attraction, and sexual satisfaction. The expression of a variety of these needs varies from one individual to another individual, so the passion between the two individuals are making love might be different.

Most people just connect your passion with sexual needs, but not just that. Other needs like self-esteem, affiliate, dominance, and others also contribute in passion. Can not be denied that passion in love tends to be associated with intimacy. For example, sexual desire may arise because of the intimacy, or vice versa, the fulfillment of a good sexual desire will result in intimacy. Thus, both these components are almost always interacting with one another in close relationships.  Component Of The Commitment Harold Kelley (Sternberg, 1987) defines commitment as "the extents to which a person is likely to stick with something or someone and see it (or him or her) through to the finish."  Commitment is the level that allow one to ' attached ' or ' closely ' on something or someone, and keep doing so until it is finished. Someone who is running things is expected to continue to do so until the goal is reached. Problems that may happen is that couple who fuck have different views about what is to be achieved, so that the different commitment can occur between one individual with his partner.

love is feeling

Sternberg (1988) mention that the components of the decision/commitment have two aspects, namely, short-term (decision) and long-term (commitment). Aspects of short-term is a decision to love certain people, while the long-term commitment is to maintain love. The second aspect of decision/commitment this does not have to occur simultaneously. The decision to make love not necessarily implies a commitment in making love, and vice versa does not imply commitment decisions. However, the decision should precede the commitment.
Sternberg (1988) mention that the components of the decision/commitment have two aspects, namely, short-term (decision) and long-term (commitment). Aspects of short-term is a decision to love certain people, while the long-term commitment is to maintain love. The second aspect of decision/commitment this does not have to occur simultaneously. The decision to make love not necessarily implies a commitment in making love, and vice versa does not imply commitment decisions. However, the decision should precede the commitment.

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The Meaning Of True Love

Have you ever felt love? Have you ever felt true love? Or if you ever felt love but you still wonder whether the love you have is true love or not? Well, this time I will discuss what is meant by true love.

meaning of love

You should know that love is not the as simple wording. Love is a feeling that exists between two people. Love is not just talking about giving and mutual acceptance. Love is wider than that. You should know that every relationship is woven must be based on a true love relationship that can last forever. If not, then a pledge to be faithful to just be an ornament in the poem. If really you and your partner love each other, then I'm sure you'll know what true love.



1. True love is shared and complementary

True love is compassionate and merciful emerged based on feelings are willing to share with a partner. Both share the joy and shared sorrow. Those who love true love will know and be sensitive to their partner when the partner in trouble or in a state of mourning, though her partner hides it. So one would begin to ask questions about what has happened and what makes their partner becomes sad.

Then, they will share more about the problem and will discuss how to solve the problem together. So both saying complement, not just a complete lack of, but also enhance mutual advantages. Because true love is the perfect grace of god given to mankind.


2. True love is accepting wholeheartedly

Nobody is perfect. Every human being must have disadvantages and advantages of each. In a person who we know and love, there is always nature or other things that we like and do not like. However, if your love is true love, then you will not look at the advantages and disadvantages couples.

The most basic things that can be the benchmark is, we are also in fact not a perfect person. We also have many shortcomings. So of self-awareness is true love will grow and will receive what their loved ones. You will not be looking better again because the best ones certainly have its drawbacks.


3. True love is honesty and a sincerity

There is no perfect love, but love is in the drama and romantic movies. Love is in the drama is just an imagination of the director who intentionally inflicts that true love is a perfect love. But in fact, they are only acting full scenario. In real life, true love is quite marked by sincerity and honesty.

True love does not begin with a lie. True love only comes from a heart that truly expresses love. If he is in love he says love and if he does not love then he will say no love. So couples who endowed pure love is a love that is sincere and honest as a partner. From the beginning until the end of life separate the two.


4. Real sacrifice for love

A person who has a genuine love will never feel burdened by love, though it should be sacrificed and continue to sacrifice. Rsa no remorse in him, even though the whole body and soul become sick and die from the fight for true love.

Couples who have a true love will uphold mutual affection and place it above all else.

There is no reward more beautiful than someone we love but a love that is true. And there is no gift more beautiful than those who love us in addition to the sacrifices and struggles to maintain relationships.


5. True love will not fade with time

True love is the eternal enemy of distance and time. Where time always tries to seduce and distance will always make longing. That's when the mind is getting hurt by love without the physical encounter. Had, however, no chance to be together. That's when we have to remember what is the meaning of true love. True love is a love that will not be disturbed by distance and time.

Because the distance is the end that is not visible to the eye and time are the seeds of lakeside longing. Then when the two met at a later time, the love of sweet fruit. The fruit of love is what is called true love. Fruit to be eternally separated till the end of life.


6. True love is our

As well as the word love, a love that has a very simple meaning. True love is us, you and I were merged into one in the taste. The flavor that grows and develops from a sense of mutual understanding. Although sometimes we are not in line and did not get along, but there is always a road that brought us together.


7. True love does not need to have each

There is a lot of love that sometimes the unexpected arrival of. There are times when love comes without permission, break down the door of the heart without care. When we feel it, my heart seemed questioning. What does this all mean? If this is true love? Or just an ordinary love? Or just love that moment? When we realize it is a true love, sometimes it was too late, because the people we love is gone with other people she loves.

One thing we believe is already worthless. One heart that we want and we expect only a shadow. That's when we'll know that true love does not have to have. Knowing that we are sincere love is enough, even if unrequited, though no trace yet love is limitless.


That bit about the meaning of true love. Essentially, if someone has a true love, then she will bestow everything just for the sake of love. He would not care what was going to happen, an important person she loves can feel his love.

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The Meaning Of Love

This time matadunia.net will discuss about love. I'm sure everyone already knows about love and may you all have never felt love. But I'm sure if you all do not know about the meaning of love. Hopefully after reading this article, you can understand what love is. Happy reading.

meaning of love

Love. Just a simple word that is composed of four different letters. Very simple. Word altogether is not a difficult word to be spoken or written. Yet this simple word has always been a theme in the lives of millions. Love becomes a theme in the story of a happy or a sad story that is endless.


I'm sure you've all heard, and i've even been to feel what love is. But do you know the real meaning of love? This time i will try to decipher what love is.


Love is a feeling

Know, o friend, that love can not be seen and can not be touched. Love can only be felt. Love is a person's feelings toward others.

Love is a feeling that no one in this world knowing when and where it came from, be destroy those who are suffering love too will never know when and where it comes from the love she had.

Love is a gift of God

Love is a natural human feeling given by god to mankind as a gift of the most beautiful. God-given love that is a deposit which can be taken back by god if we abuse it. Love itself simply can not be forced, love can only work if both parties sincerely love each other. Ideals can not start if they are selfish.

Love is a gift of the most beautiful that can not be assessed the price and it was given to a perfect creature that is man. Feelings of love can not be spoken only with words, and can not be described by any language. Love can only be read with the language of love and feeling. Love is a feeling that there is in my heart most deeply.

Love is pure

Because love is a gift from god, then god would not give a gift that is not holy and pure to humans. Believe that love is sacred because love is a gift that is fondest tuah. With their love, then life in this world more beautiful. With their love of the peace will be created in this world.

But never blame love if you hurt because of love. Because it does not love that caused you hurt and suffering. Not love that makes you feel sick. Actually, makes you suffer are those who abuse love you. That makes you sad is the people who have hurt you in the name of love.

Love is white

Love is like a blank white paper. White and clean and no stains. When love is given to man, then the paper will be colored. All depends on your wish or want to give any color of love.

Love can be black if you write with black ink and colored iridescent love can be if you are a painter in love. And love will remain white if you are the person who maintains the sanctity of love.

That's a little picture of love. Hopefully, we get true love, pure and holy.