Love does not have to have, a sentence that very often we hear from the mouths of people who did not get his love. This phrase is usually used merely as an entertainer's heart when love just claps hands or rejected by someone beloved.
People who say this sentence is the person who is being felt the bitterness of love. Whether people like this deserve to be pitied? No. Whether it is appropriate if the person we refer to as the poor man? Not really. Why? Because with the experience of love is rejected by the people he loves, he will have a valuable experience, which he will become more mature, become more patient and more thoughtful in life.
Let's look deeper still. Whether the affection and love that should have? Whether to love the money we love it, we have to be his girlfriend? Whether when we love someone, that person must belong to us completely? Affection and love, you have not fully gotten a score of 100% if you still expect reciprocity or remuneration in the form of love and sadness. But it is very human.
Love and affection that ideal is love and affection without expectation of reward or a reply. But we should know that in this world nothing is ideal and perfect as we want.
Love is giving and self-sacrifice without expecting any reply from loved ones. The actual true love, we can give only if the lovers already really belong to us completely. And if our loved ones are not yet completely ours, surely the love we always want strings attached or reply. Whether it wants to love and be loved by the people we love or other rewards.
That love requires sacrifice. Not only the sacrifice of time, energy and material, even victims feeling. Especially if our love is not reciprocated, then we will be the even greater sacrifice.
A question for those of you who say that love does not have to have each other. Could you smile happily when the one you love to introduce his girlfriend or husband/wife? Could you feel happy to see happy together with others whom he loves?
I think you would be upset, angry, disappointed and felt hurt when seeing those you love with others and live happily. It was very normal. We are just ordinary people who have emotions, ambition and motivation. Whatever we do, we often expect the reward. If there is no hope of getting strings attached, for what you do that? Just because of love? Simply because of love? Sure? Is it true that you do not expect him to come back someday? Is it true that you do not expect a sweet smile? Just note that smile that is often a vulnerary at heart, although only just blink of an eye.
However, I remain convinced that a sincere love was still there. As its size is, if you still love him, continued to do well against him, when he expects to remain help, it means you can be said to have had a sincere love and sincerity.
Regardless of how great a sacrifice you have to bear and does not care as deeply as any pain in the hearts of you. If you still can smile sweetly sincere when seeing someone you love is happy with someone else, I'm sure that's what love is sincere and selfless.
Now you have to realize that sometimes love does not have to have each other. However, you also have to realize that you've hurt yourself when you maintain unrequited love.
If you are experiencing unrequited love. Rest assured that he is not the best for us. Now you should immediately clean itself to become a new self by learning to love others.
Do not let yourself continually believe that "I am also happy to see him happy." rest assured that there are other people who can make you happy.